Maybe you think you have it all figured out, but you don’t have a clue. It’s time to realize you’re in the crowd of insecure ladies and grow up. We all experience insecurity about something. Regardless, if you’re a woman, man, child—insecurity brews inside of us. Now, before I even touch upon how insecurities damage relationships, you need to realize how damaging it is for yourself. Many people who encounter insecure women have a tendency to label them as crazy or insane—which isn’t the case.
Insecure women are simply insecure. When someone triggers their insecurity they panic. I once had a panic attack on a date when I realized that maybe the guy didn’t like me as much as I thought. I literally stood up from the table, mumbled something and left. I freaked out.
Insecure women aren’t all crazy
So, if you look to have a meaningful relationship, overcome your insecurities. It won’t be easy, I know that. However, if you don’t work on this, it always comes between you and your partner. So, it’s time for you to let go and ditch the insecure women group you’ve sat in this whole time.
#1 Go way back in time. Your insecurities didn’t all of a sudden pop up. No, no, no. Start going back into your memory, way back. Usually, our insecurities develop over a period of time. Maybe it has something to do with your parents or your first big love. What is important is for you to spend some time thinking about when this insecurity of yours really started.
#2 Acknowledge your insecure behavior. Own up to it. You’re insecure. Say it out loud, I am insecure. It’s not a bad thing, you know. Everyone is insecure. Now that you acknowledge it, you start to figure out what happened and how you’ll change that insecurity into something positive. It’s time to unchain yourself from your negative thoughts.