Being dumped hurts for a number of reasons, the most obvious being that this person you wanted to stay with no longer wants you. It’s normal to want to fight back against being dumped or just make your now-ex feel bad. If you’ve ever been dumped, you have probably been wondering what you could do to get your ex back or what makes men regret breaking up with you in the first place. Dumper’s remorse, as I call it, is very real. It happens to everyone who ever dumps a person.
Even guys who are totally sure that the girl they left wasn’t for them feel it, and will even question themselves if they actually did the right thing.
Want to make him regret dumping you? Use the following things to your advantage, and it’ll happen.
1. Get his friends on your side.
If you were always kind and sweet to him, and if his friends knew you well, then you better believe his friends will probably notice him dumping you. Most people will be very aware of how hard it is to get a good partner. They may even ask him what the deal was if they themselves liked you enough. His friends hold a lot of power over him, so don’t be surprised if they end up sparking his interest in taking you back.
2. Make more money than he does.
I call this the “Taylor Swift principle.” Everyone knows that the pop singer had a bunch of guys who treated her like sh*t, several of whom had dumped her. She’s now a multimillionaire who enjoys a luxury mansion, cars, and whatever her heart desires. If you don’t think they feel remorseful about dumping her, you’re very wrong.